Is Flirting Cheating When You’re in a Relationship?Eye Spy Blog 1
Does your significant other flirt with an attractive friend when you aren’t around?
Eye Spy discusses the question Is Flirting Cheating When You’re in a Relationship?
Or a better way to put the same question is, do they enjoy having a happy conversation with an attractive friend or coworker?
Most people press the panic button when it comes to flirting. Before your partner flirts with everyone else, they should consider their partner’s feelings.
Why does flirting feel so good?
Before we even get to chatting about whether flirting is cheating, let’s get to why flirting feels so good. Here are 4 good reasons.
#1 It helps keep your sexuality alive and makes you feel better about your own attractiveness.
#2 You become a better flirt, which makes you a better tease and a better conversationalist.
#3 It makes you feel more confident about yourself and your own abilities.
#4 It doesn’t leave you frustrated or restricted by your relationship.
If you can flirt naturally, it shows that you have all the charming traits in you already, and that makes you a really good catch.
Flirting leads to other things. There are different degrees of flirting, just like getting to first base vs. a Home run. The difference between harmless flirting, touchy flirting and talking dirty
Is flirting cheating? Well, it depends on the kind of flirting you have in mind. There are 3 types of flirting you could indulge in when you’re talking to someone outside the relationship.
#1 Harmless flirting. This is the kind of flirting where you use your gestures and your voice to have a happy conversation. You tease and you laugh, and you have a great time. This is perfectly acceptable even when you’re in a relationship. If your partner can’t handle it, it only means they’re insecure or feel offended when you give anyone else your attention. [Read: 15 shocking and yet subtle signs of a controlling boyfriend]
#2 Touchy flirting. In this kind of flirting, you do all of the above and yet, you take it one step further. You exercise your hands and almost all the time, your hand’s resting on some part of your friend’s body. You may place your hand causally, but it could definitely be misinterpreted by everyone around.
#3 Talking dirty. When anyone talks about flirting, every prudish mind thinks of this kind. Flirting is casual. Talking dirty definitely isn’t. If you talk dirty, compliment the other person sexually or try to get them to sleep with you, then that’s completely unacceptable when you’re already in a relationship.
So is your partner indulging in a bit of flirting when you are not around? If they catch onto you investigating them they will restrict it to the harmless kind, until you are off their trail.
Flirting and the need to feel appreciated
All of us have the need to feel appreciated. And that’s why we dress up, use makeup, workout or get a better job. Somewhere deep inside all of us, we need reassurances from someone else to feel good about ourselves.
Call the experts at Eye Spy to see how far your significant other acts when you are not around. If your partner is flirting right in front of you, it’s very disrespectful and should be investigated. A person that really loves you would not hurt you and would consider your feelings first. If that’s not the case, you have a very selfish partner.
Call Eye Spy to bust that flirt and end your misery. Eye Spy will help you take out the trash. 888-393-7799