Why Guys Cheat in the SummerEye Spy Blog 1
Eye Spy discusses why guys cheat in the summer. During the warm-weather months, men are more likely to be unfaithful. Here’s what to look out for.
We hate to interrupt all the fun you are having at barbecues and pool parties these days, but there’s some surprising news you need to know about: Summer is cheat season — the time of year when people are most likely to sneak around on their partners. And though chicks do their fair share of cheating, guys are more prone to being summertime two-timers because they’re more likely to stray in general.
Of course, we’re not saying that your man is definitely gonna step out on you by Labor Day. But it’s a good idea to read the info below so you get a handle on why it may happen, plus the tip-offs that can tell you if more than his eyes have been wandering.
Remember when you were a kid and summer meant no school, freedom, and fun? Well, that attitude carries over into adulthood, leaving us with the sense that during these months, the usual rules don’t apply. Some men take this to mean that it’s okay to cheat once the hot weather rolls around.
They think, Oh, it’s just a summer fling, as if normal couple behavior is on hiatus. That same outlook also makes people associate the summer with adventure. Now is the time when you’re more apt to try something new, and any novelty increases your body’s production of dopamine, which triggers the release of testosterone — two chemicals associated with energy, elation, and sex, A guy may seek sexually charged situations and could give in if tempted.
People are also simply way more social in the summer. Balmy weather puts us in a happier, more gregarious frame of mind, drawing us together via lots of social events — like outdoor dining, backyard parties, and group trips to the beach. With more people in a friendly, even flirty, mood coming out to socialize, there’s a larger market of women to mingle with and, thus, increased chances for a man to be unfaithful.
And let’s not forget the obvious: When the temperature goes up, clothes come off. Since guys are so easily turned on by all the female skin they see poking out of sundresses, tank tops, and short shorts on the street and at work, they’re in a constant state of heightened desire. As a result, it may be easier for them to succumb to lust should an opportunity arise.
Signs Your Guy May Dog Around on You
Watch out if he doesn’t invite you to a work event that other coworkers’ partners are attending, like an office picnic or rooftop drinks. Not inviting you implies that he doesn’t want his coworkers to know he has a girlfriend so he can flirt with someone else.
Also, though it’s normal for guys to check out other women for a second or two, even if you’re right there with him, be concerned if he’s taking more than a quick glance in front of you. It’s a sign he isn’t concerned with appearing faithful and may be open to playing around.
Another red flag is if he tells you that he wants to use his summer vacation to take a guys-only trip and doesn’t set aside any time off to spend with you. True, he could really just want to hang out at the beach with his buddies. But he could also want to mess around out of town, where he’s less likely to be caught.
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