Happily Ever AfterEye Spy Blog 1
What exactly does happily ever after look and feel like? Does Happily Ever After Exist? It’s probably not what you think it is. It doesn’t mean that you’re never going to have problems or that there wont be some things that won’t change ever. It means that you make a committment to someone you love and someone you WILL spend the rest of your life with. It’s the effort that you make to keep the two of you together and together happily.
Sometimes your prince charming, is just an idiot in tin foil. ♥
When your happily ever after isn’t, we will be here for you. When your Prince Charming isn’t who you think he is, we will be here for you.
If your prince charming is married to someone else and LIED ALL ABOUT IT. We will get you the evidence that you need.
Moving on with your life
Stop waiting for Prince Charming. Get up and find him.The poor idiot may be stuck in a tree or something. When you finally do meet him, we will check him out completely and confidentially.
It isn’t that your marriage wasn’t great, it’s all the other things that tend to take your focus away from each other and pull at you from all different directions!
So how do you fix your view of happily ever after? How do you focus on the life after ‘I do’ and make it just as good as falling in love and being pursued? Here’s a few tips!
1. Change Your Expectations.
Has life thrown you some curve balls? Has your road to happily ever after been filled with twists and turns, bumps and dips? Whatever has happened until now, that is the past. Know that YOU and only you can change your situation and your expectations.
You can choose to stay in the “what I thought life would be like” mentality OR you can regroup and choose to focus on the positive. See the changes as something wonderful – as an adventure you and your husband are taking together. Change your outlook for the better and it will change your life.
2. Learn to Pursue (not just be pursued).
Before the wedding, your husband pursued you. He sought after you and you after him. But sometimes after the wedding the pursuing stops. Life gets in the way, things get busy, or maybe you just think the “pursuing” is over now. I have good news for you: it’s not over! Marriage is about a life-long pursuit of one another!
Chase each other. Adore one another. Date for a lifetime. And if you’re wondering how to do that after kids, try a stay-at-home date night.
3. Accept YOUR “Happily Ever After”.
Your “happily ever after” is whatever you want it to be. All you have to do is accept it and make the most of what you’ve been given. Your happily ever after doesn’t have to be the boring part that seems to follow a lot of marriages. It can be an exciting, thrilling journey that brings you and your husband closer than you ever imagined.
It’s never too late to live Happily Ever After!
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