Signs of Infidelity

Signs of Infidelity


Eye Spy Detective Agency is a firm of professional Private Investigators licensed in Michigan, Ohio and Florida who specialize in uncovering marital affairs, unfaithful partners and all other forms of infidelity, including: cheating wives, cheating husbands, unfaithful boyfriends and girlfriends.

You have a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach, something is not right but you can’t quite figure out what that feeling is about. You suspect your spouse is cheating but every time you bring it up with your spouse, he/she denies the possibility. All the signs are there but you don’t have any proof. So, pay attention to the signs and your instinct but, be careful not to confuse signs with proof.

Signs of infidelity are not necessarily the same thing as proof of cheating. Without proof, few cheating spouses will admit the truth. A licensed Private Investigator can help you determine if they are cheating.

Signs of Infidelity

Unfortunately, once someone seriously suspects infidelity, more often than not, their suspicions are correct. Here are some signs:

1. “I love you but I’m not in love with you.” or “I need space to figure out my feelings”
If you hear these words, a big warning bell should go off.

2. “You are crazy” or “You are acting crazy”

3. “We are just friends.”

4. Going to the gym

5. Regular work habits change.
Working late, going to work at odd hours or, putting in more time than is normal on work related issues can be indications that a spouse is cheating.

6. Spending a large amount of time on the computer.
In today’s world, with modern technology, a person looking for an affair doesn’t even have to leave their home. The ease of internet chat rooms, online dating sites and secret email accounts has caused an alarming increase in emotional affairs.

If your spouse is online more than usual, hanging out in chat rooms and visiting pornographic websites then you have reason to be alarmed.

7. Secretive phone calls and more time spent on the phone.
Emotional affairs occur primarily via the phone, especially cell phones.

8. Things are not adding up.
Not being where he/she was expected to be. Missing time they can’t explain. Money that isn’t accounted for. Receipts for things you don’t have. Missing clothing. Clothing that does not belong to your family. Being caught in little lies about the details of the day. If something is off with their behavior, you should suspect cheating.

9. Buying new clothes

10. Your Own fears and suspicions
If you find yourself looking for excuses for your spouse’s behavior or trying to convince yourself that they would never cheat then that is a warning sign. Your intuition is frequently one of the best indicators that something is wrong.

***Did you know that 85% of the time when a faithful spouse suspects their partner of cheating, they’re right?


Call a Private Investigator

If you suspect your spouse might be cheating on you, call a private investigator and then talk to him/her about what you’ve found. NEVER confront the cheater. They will simply change their routine and make it harder for you to catch them.

This entire website is dedicated to helping you to recognize the signs of cheating.  Once you notice 2 or more of these signs of cheating, a Private Investigator at Eye Spy Detective Agency can catch them red handed.

It is a sad fact that people having affairs become excellent liars. People who never told a lie before in their lives. Trust your gut instinct but get hard, cold proof also. 

We realize that hiring a private investigator for the first time can be an unnerving experience. We are here for you and we will get you through this. The private Investigators at Eye Spy are sensitive to your situation. Our Investigators will go the extra mile to obtain the evidence that you need.

Investigating cheating & marital infidelity is one of the most important services a private investigator can render.

The Private Investigators at Eye Spy Detective Agency have many years of experience in conducting covert video and photographic surveillance, gathering facts, as well as uncovering and documenting evidence of all types. We are an accredited member of the Better Business Bureau and continue to maintain an A Rating.

All our investigations are conducted with the strictest confidentiality to protect your privacy.

Infidelity doesn’t mean your marriage must come to an end. Trust has been lost, the betrayal is emotionally painful but, if there is a good foundation and friendship, you can save your marriage.

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