Porn Addiction

Porn Addiction

Porn Addiction

Eye Spy investigations discusses porn addiction. Porn addiction is very sad. Mostly because the person who is addicted to the porn neglects their partners needs and satisfies their own without a second thought. If it’s possible ask him to see a counselor about this. If he refuses then he obviously doesn’t care enough or doesn’t think it’s a problem. It’s your call but be forewarned porn addiction takes a lot out of a relationship and it can really hurt everyone involved. It is not “just” the porn, there is so much more, the neglect, the feeling of being lonely.
There is a fine line between regular porn use and addiction. Pornography is addictive, it also has side effects. What is a very dangerous shared consequence of these poisons is the desensitization of the user/consumer. If you abuse it, you’ll lose your ability. If your Husband has a porn addiction he will need some help from the blue pill or a porn video to get to “full staff position.” He will also be the only person to “complete” his mission by his own doing…if you know what I mean. This is from being desensitized by all the porn videos. He is used to the videos and that is what does it for him. It’s like having a third person in the marriage.
Porn addiction in marriage leads emotional and psychological abuse. An addict’s usual response will be “It doesn’t mean anything.” “All guys do it.”  “I won’t do it anymore.” Porn will never go away for a very long time despite your pleas and his promises. It will get worse and worse and with the advent of the Internet, their habit will fuel to unreachable highs. Their love of sex and porn will hurt you badly, especially because they will make their addiction sound like it’s your fault. Please look deep inside yourself to find out what you can live with and what you cannot, then don’t compromise your values. The goal of this life is to keep your soul. I know you will do what is right for you. Porn addiction is a selfish act that your Husband will do to his next 3 Wives, if you choose to leave him. Very rarely does this behavior change. A person with this addiction will just look for an enabler (a person who will make excuses for him and allow him to continue on.) They will tell you that there are worse addictions the could have than porn. My response is…..an addiction is an addiction! If something controls you to the point it has physically affected you and now is threatening your relationship, that’s a problem, regardless of it’s size.  This type of addiction usually goes hand in hand with being impulsive, irresponsible and lying to hide this addiction.
My heart goes out to you with faith and love.

*ONCE YOU BUST THEM WITH THE PORN you have options:

Emotional/behavioral conditions

1. Therapy

2.Divorce papers

You must be aware that during Porn addiction treatment your Husband will need to go through a acceptance phase but will also go through a resistance…which may make him very angry possibly at you.

There is always relapse potential!! Even after several years down the road! Once an addict, always an addict.

Recovery environment: ZERO TOLERANCE! No more porn videos ever! One video will send the addict into a tail spin, much like one drink for an alcoholic. No cop videos, high speed impulsive chases, no TV/computers in the bedroom, 1 cup of caffeinated beverages/day if any, low stress, monitored internet use and no drug use. *The above was advice from a licensed Porn Addiction Therapist.
SNAP-OUT-OF-IT darling… you have NO TIME TO LOSE. Call Eye Spy and have your computer checked for porn. We can pull deleted images and videos. Call today Eye Spy today at 888-393-7799 or visit www.EyeSpyinvestigations.com

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